Okay, my experience was… okay let me say there was this person I met a guy that I met and we exchanged number and we were like talking on phone for like 2 months or there about though before then or before the 2 months like went he has been requesting to meet with me but I kept saying that I was busy like I didn’t want to meet up with the person so but we were like talking on phone we were like good friends, so then I can say recently, it was recent so the guy like asked to see me and I was like okay, let me at least try to give him opportunity because I have been turning him down for a lot of times not for no particular reason, but I don’t want to be giving chances to guys like that but though so there was this particular day it was in the evening so the guy, so we like fixed a time and the guy came around and when he came around we had a good conversation so I don’t know I was sitting on my bed and the guy was sitting on a chair right in front of me so I just don’t know what happened all of a sudden the guy just grabbed me like carried me from my leg and just laid me on my bed before I could think of what was going on and the guy just put his mouth in my mouth and just under my clothes and he was just like pushing me and I was like what’s going on here, I could not even speak up because his mouth was all over my mouth I could not talk I was like trying to push him off but he was like man powering me down like I could not even move but at a point I just like could get myself free and I was like what’s going on, because I don’t understand, because I thought we were meeting for the first time ever since we exchanged number because we just met for like 2 minutes and exchanged number because I was in a hurry to go somewhere. I couldn’t count that as a meeting so I was like this is our first time meeting. I was not expecting anything physical. I was just being calm as possible so I didn’t expect that from him at all but then, I was about standing up like I stood up from my bed to just move away from him and he dragged me back I want to say I’m grateful because I was on my jean trousers because he was literally like wanting to go into my panties and he almost, he even tore my trousers like he tore it with his two hands like I had to be like I could not shout because I didn’t want attention and because people around the house… attention or embarrassment or anything but I had to look at him and I had bite his lip because I was like what’s this like I was just shaking at that point because the guy was just all over me saying he wants to do stuffs with me and I was like what’s the meaning of this because it was so bad and the fact that I was shaking, and I don’t know if I can give the whole experience but the guy was violent because he even injured me on my hand because he was holding the 2 of my hand up like… and I was trying to free myself and I even injured myself and throughout that day, for the rest of that day I was shaking and I couldn’t have anybody to talk to because I just didn’t know anybody to tell till I chased the guy out like he should start going and then I locked my door immediately but I just…

Yes, he even like went under my clothes actually like my brazier, he even like pressed my breast and my breast were aching me like… I was like what’s this like is this how men are like. I was totally turned off. I was even irritated that what is this? Like ever since then I didn’t talk to the guy, I just blocked him because I didn’t even need any explanation for the rubbish the guy did. Then I was like what was this because even that day if I was mistakenly on a skirt, I’m damn sure that this guy was going to do anything that day, he was going to do anything but yeah that was my experience.