“My first experience, I was six years old. So, it was a festive period, December period. During
those periods my parents do travel home, they will travel to our hometown. So, they will leave
myself and my siblings with an uncle.
You know I was the last child, so I sleep with my parents while others, they sleep alone.
And you know, the culture has been me sleeping with my parents, even when they were not
there, this uncle will want me to sleep… because he was sleeping in my parents’ room; so,
because that’s where I do sleep, he will always want me to sleep there. Even when I wanted to
sleep with my siblings he will say, ‘No, this is where you should sleep. Sleep with me in Daddy’s
room’…
So, I was young; I didn’t even know anything but all I know is, during the night, he will try to
bring out his penis, put my hands there and all those kinds of things. Like I don’t really know, I
sha know it happens every night anytime my parents are not around. But anytime they’re around,
he won’t even…
So, there was this particular time that I felt like staying with my siblings that night. So, I stood up
late, we were watching movie; I wanted to sleep with them. I told them already that I’m sleeping
with them that if Brother… I don’t want to mention names…
That if Brother so, so, so say I should sleep with him that they should say no, that I want to sleep
with them. So, they now said, ‘Okay, no problem’. So, they were all happy that at least we’ll
sleep together and all that. So, when it was in the night, maybe around 9 or so, that’s how this
uncle came and was like, ‘Oya, everybody should go and sleep’. And he said… so, I was heading
to my siblings’ room, he dragged me and was like, ‘Let’s go.’ I said, no, that today I want to
sleep with them and those too they were like… so, we were small, and we were scared of the
uncle because I don’t… I think he should be… maybe about 27 plus then. But we were just
scared of the uncle because… or because of the cane. He forced my siblings to sleep separately
and myself to sleep with him…
So, this time, I was already tired of him… of me in the night touching… what I don’t even know
and him touching me too. So, this particular night, I was tired, when he brought it out, he put my
hand inside, I said no, that I cannot to do it. But you know, I was young; he had to force me and
this time around he had to put the stuff in my own vagina and…

Yes, that same night that I wanted to sleep with my siblings. That was the first time he did that,
the other ones he was doing was just to put my hand, and maybe use my hand to stroke his penis
like he was… but… he advanced to the next phase of him being on me and all that. I just know
he will be on me, going up, down, all those things.